My Friend's House

For nearly a year, I have been looking at church websites to gain an understanding of the audience the church was focused. Was it for only for those currently attending? Was it to invite people outside to come in their doors? Or was the church coming together with the local community for a relational event?

Granted, websites aren’t always the best way to learn about a church’s focus. When I am able, after attending the first service at my church, I attend another church other than my own, to get a sense of how a first-time visitor might feel. Does the church speak “Christianize” or would a visitor be able to clearly understand the gospel?

I also look for a welcoming atmosphere. Most churches I have visited have cheerful greeters and are welcoming. Handshakes, smiles and introductions take place. Sometimes, the welcoming stops there. Occasionally, someone might say, “Won’t you join me?” and sit with the guest.

Inclusivity

Inclusivity is a subject that isn’t talked about in churches. I’m referring to inclusivity as in “Come with me. Let’s do this together.” It’s a huge part of discipleship. It’s a part of evangelism. It certainly is relational. Inclusivity is more than inviting, or welcoming. That’s part of it. But real inclusivity asks another to join with someone

Inclusivity is the next step after the invite, or the welcome. It’s what says, “Come and sit with me.” or “Hey, you want to ride with me to the store?” Inclusivity is the friendliness that’s offers time with someone that might normally be on the outside. Suddenly a bridge appears to encounter something together.

Try incorporating some of the suggestions below when you are at your next church service or trying to reach out to your neighbors.

Ways to be inclusive during a church service.

1. Look for people who are new to you and introduce yourself.
2. Never let someone sit alone. Whether they are new to you, or regularly attend, include them by sitting with them.
3. Have conversation afterwards.
4. Exchange phone #’s or go out to lunch afterwards.

Ways to be inclusive in your neighborhood.

1. Run errands together.
2. Ask for help. Yes. that’s right. Ask for help even if you can do it alone.
3. Mix it up! Have neighbors over with friends from church.

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